Tantra massage for men
As a man, you will experience our tantra massage as a very sensual body-to-body massage that may give you deeper insight into who you really are. The massage awakens your heart and gives you strength, calmness, overview and self-confidence. It shows you how you can rise to your full potential in regards of sexuality, love and life.
Why tantra massage?
Tantra massage gives you the possibility to go deep into yourself and to feel yourself from the inside. You will discover the source of your inner strength and power. Actually, many men experience that through sensual devotion to the present moment they find their mission in life and a path to deeper meaning in their lives.
According to Tantra, a man has the potential to become multiorgasmic (just as the woman), which means that he will be able to have multiple orgasms without losing energy through ejaculation. However, we live in a society that has forgotten this and that teaches men that ejaculation is a goal in itself, and the most important thing in sex. But actually, a man misses out on an enormous part of his potential to live as a powerful, potent man if he ejaculates. Therefore we want to teach men to master their sexual energy in a way where they can use it to fuel all their qualities and mission in life, and where they can learn – gradually – to become multiorgasmic and experience orgasm in their whole body, thus also realizing their potential as a divine lover.
Tantra massage can help you understand and control your sexual energy so that you may stand firm, feeling secure and full of self-confidence, in your erotic life, your love life, your work life and in relation to yourself. This also implies that challenges like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation may be alleviated through tantra massage. The massage comes with no expectations or feelings of inferiority. The only thing you need do is to sense the present moment. In other words, you have the opportunity to feel yourself as you really are in the present moment, rather than having to perform or act in a way, and this experience is aligned with your deepest truth.
When you learn to master your own energy as a man, you will also experience how you gain access to new dimensions of yourself and to a more spiritual understanding of your own masculine core.
A tantra massage at the Tantra Temple begins with you scheduling an appointment for a massage. When you arrive in the temple on the time for the massage, you will be greeted by one of our female masseurs who has prepared a beautiful room for the two of you.
There is time for a chat and for any questions you may have before the massage begins. And if you would like, the masseur can also give you a short introduction to how we work with energies in the Tantric tradition and what you can expect to experience during the massage. Then you will take a warm shower, so you can feel warm, relaxed and clean before the massage. We have soap and towels ready for you. It will always be a female masseur who gives the massage to a man at the Temple.
When you are ready for the massage, you will undress and lie down on the mattress, and a little later the masseur will enter the room. You will be naked during the massage, and during the entire massage session, your masseur will be wearing a g-string.
How the massage is given
The massage is a Tantric body-to-body-massage that awakens and sharpens your senses. It awakens and arouses your erotic energy, which will be spread throughout your entire body and give you the ability to feel utmost pleasure while simultaneously staying in maximum control of your energy. In body-to-body massage, the masseur uses her own body to give the massage, i.e. her hands, arms, body, breasts and legs. This experience will make you feel entirely immersed in the sensual female energy which, in turn, will help you let go of all thoughts and become one with your body, sensing and enjoying what you are experiencing. The massage is a present given to you by the universally feminine, and you are invited, without having to do anything at all in return, simply to receive this gift.
You will also experience how being entirely receptive to her touch allows you to experience the universally feminine gift bestowed on all women in an entirely new way that may help you in your daily encounters with women. Therefore, it is very important that you remember to focus on what you perceive and sense in the massage.
After the massage, time is set aside for you to have a glass of water and some fruit, and you are welcome to ask questions or, if you so feel, to tell what you have sensed along the way, before you leave the Temple and re-enter the outside world, ready to tackle your everyday challenges and tasks in accordance with your true power, the vision for your life, and a heart filled with love.
The massage is meant to present you with the very best of opportunities to experience the erotic and sensual potential of your entire body. The massage will therefore not include massage of the penis/lingam, which would only distract attention from the experience the rest of your body is enjoying. The ability to be fully present in the present moment, enjoying the sensual experience of a massage, is the best training any man can get to become multi- and whole-body orgasmic. Our massage is founded on the concept of sexual continence – because the path to endless ecstasy opens with the mastering of the erotic energy.
Although the massage does arouse erotic energy, there will be no ejaculation; instead you will experience how the masseurs help you disseminate your energy throughout your entire body to make it come alive. Many men fear that the sensual and beautiful massage will make them ejaculate – but you will soon relax and enjoy the massage, and also notice that our skilled masseur helps you both awaken and also lift the energy so that it flows into states of unconditioned love, sensuality, pleasure, relaxation and high spiritual states, and you will also feel how you gradually learn to master your erotic energy and life energy.
Some talk about a happy ending, we, however, believe in never-ending happiness.
How will I benefit from a tantra massage?
The loving and caring attitude that embraces the entire massage session awakens the heart in both the masseur and you. This will give you more peace of mind. The massage is a unique opportunity to rid yourself from the idea of roles you have to play and providing/ performing. This is an opportunity for you to take a little break from your work identity, your family role and your ideals; an opportunity to put all this aside and seize the moment to really experience pure being, sensation and inner peace in a way that renews and invigorates your masculinity from the inside—allowing you to respond your everyday life’s doings with clarity, power and love.
You may experience waves of energy transcending your entire body and mind; and you may experience how this energy awakens, heals, and lifts you up while also giving you intense pleasure and joy. You may also experience how the tantra massage will help you let go of excessive goal-orientation so you can focus more on being present in the moment, and how you will gradually learn to master your sexual energy without suppressing it. In this way, you may, in time, learn to become multiorgasmic and your entire body may experience the same orgasmic intensity, which is usually a privilege of the sexual organs only. This will make you much more self-confident as a man and give you a feeling of virility, clout and strength in all aspects of life.
Tantra massage options
You can choose between 3 different options for your Tantra massage, and if you wish to receive from one masseur or two masseurs simultaneously (4-hand massage). Time seems to fly during a Tantra massage and often it will not be possible to prolong the massage during the experience itself. If you would like a longer massage than is offered in our list, you are welcome to contact us.
This option includes a short preliminary talk, time for a shower, a Tantra massage, and a concluding talk – altogether 2 hours. Women should be aware that this option does not include time for yoni massage.
This option includes a preliminary talk, time for a shower, a Tantra massage, and a concluding talk – altogether 2.5 hours. We recommend this option for those who would like to get deeper into the experience, with extra time to relax, open up, awaken the sensuality in the entire body, become conscious of the erotic energy and become aware of themselves and their heart. For female guests, this package also includes time for a yoni massage.
This option includes a preliminary talk, time for a shower, a Tantra massage, and a concluding talk – altogether 3 hours. This option allows you to go even deeper into the experience of the Tantra massage with all the psychological and therapeutic aspects of the massage. This extra time is often necessary in order to be able to open up and work with blockages or challenges you might face in your life. In this option, we have time for a longer talk and to work with specific challenges you may encounter on your path through life. During the massage we can look into specific issues, like old traumas or wishes for a deeper spiritual connection to your soul or a deeper experience of your true nature. This option gives also you the opportunity to feel a more timeless exploration of sublime sensual pleasure, awakening of vitality in the entire body, and ecstatic inner joy that comes by getting in contact with your inner source of love. We recommend this option for both men and women that wish to have time for an even deeper experience and more time to receive guidance/coaching from the masseur.
Let the effects of a tantra massage last longer, enhance your experience with a meditation, yogic relaxation or yoga nidra at the end of your massage. Our add ons are a way to help you guide the energies awakened through the tantra massage and to become more conscious of your inner state.
Tantra teaches us that it is possible to use the erotic energy as source of energy for self-development. After the tantric massage, the erotic energy which is now awakened and distributed in the whole body, can be used to feed our aspiration to become an even better human being. With the Meditation Add On – we invite you to do a meditation to use the energy resulting of the massage, with the help of the masseur who is skilled in such practice and therefore can explain and support you in doing it. In this way you have an extraordinary opportunity to have a direct experience of conscious Tantric energy work. You can choose between 3 different experiences:
Awaken Your Heart – use the energy resulting from the massage to increase your capacity to love and feel compassion. The heart will bring you in contact with the guiding voice of your soul.
Mental Clarity – use the energy resulting from the massage to increase your awareness and gain more control over your mind, choosing your own thoughts.
Spiritual Awakening – use the energy resulting from the massage to expand your consciousness to merge with the universal consciousness, aiming to go beyond all the daily life concernes to the state of transcendence.
Length: 15 min.
The tantric teaching states that happiness is possible only on the background of relaxation. Many of us burdened by the stress full lifestyle in our era, can use a little help in going back to the state of relaxation and reconnect to the state of happiness. The erotic tantric massage by itself is helping us to relax deeply, to come in the body and be present here in now, letting go of all worries and stress. Adding to the massage experience a guided session of the complete yogic relaxation, will help you to deepen this effect of the massage, allowing the erotic energies to empower the state of relaxation in your being. In this way you have an extraordinary opportunity to have a direct experience of conscious Tantric energy work.
Length: 15 min.
Yoga Nidra also known as the yogic conscious sleep is a technique of deep relaxation allowing us to go beyond our mind limitations and come in contact with the essence of our being. The effect of yoga Nidra is a deep state of relaxation, Regeneration on physical, psychic and mental level leading to state of peace and happiness. Practicing yoga Nidra after a massage session with the guidance of the masseur, will allow the awakened erotic energies, to be used to empower the state of relaxation and going beyond the mind, In this way you have an extraordinary opportunity to have a direct experience of conscious Tantric energy work.
Length: 30 min.